6 Tips How To Make Other People to Like You

1. Genuinely interested in others. The first way to make others like us is to show interest in others. Interest in others may mean like hanging out and interacting with others. It is closely related to the level of social intelligence that we have. The better social intelligence we have, will allow us to mingle and interact with others. This is the future that will make other people are enjoying ourselves. In addition, we will get more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than we get in 2 years by way of seeking other people interested in you.

2. Prof smile. James V. Mc Connell, a psychologist from Michigan once said: "People who smile tend to be able to cope with, teach and sell more effectively and raising children are happier." Dear reader, with a smile to the people we meet, that we are happy to meet with him. A genuine smile means that we're happy. And pleasure is a form of positive emotions that can be "transmitted" to others. A pleasant condition is what allows us to interact better.




Well, what if at that moment we are getting into trouble? Force yourself to smile. Train yourself to be able to smile after we squeeze our problems. By forcing yourself to smile, be able to relieve upset / angry / sad that arise because of the problem1.

Authors are interested in an ancient Chinese proverb that says: "A man without a smiling face must not open shop." What is the meaning of the proverb? Yes .... A smile given by the clerk, will make the buyer feel good about shopping at the store which in turn will become loyal customers. Broader meaning is to smile at someone it would make people like us and all things associated with us (including our business).


3. Are you sure readers remember someone's name that the average person take an interest to his own name on behalf of another person in the world? Therefore, that we liked by other people then we need to mention the name of the person when you meet him. Remember well that person's name, and call it by name in a friendly tone. If that is done, then it means we have to praise her.

Be careful, do not let one person's name, because it will cause a sense of the less palatable the hearts of people who have a name. We also must not forget the name of the person we have ever encountered. It is indeed difficult. It could be because we rarely see, or just met once with a long span of time. It could also be because we do not spend time, energy and concentration to remember someone's name. Therefore, that we liked by others, let's practice to remember someone's name. Remember: "the name has magic and is the property of that man".

4. Be a good listener. God created man with one mouth and twoears. This means that we are asked to listen more than talk. Being agood listener. People prefer the good listener than a good speaker.Being a good listener is a skill and ability are rare and hard to own.

Dale Carnegie reminds that: "The person who is the person you area hundred times more interested in themselves, their desires, their problems compared with their interest in you and your problems"
Therefore, we need to learn and have the skills to be good listeners.Hopefully, I will attempt to write it in future.

5. Make others feel important final way is put forward by theCarnegie make someone feel important. If we are selfish, and is unable to provide the attention and respect to others, we will fail.People think we are important and trivial menggangap others is nota commendable attitude. It would lead to hatred against us. People will tend to stay away from us.



6. Talk to other people interests As noted above, that people prefer and are interested to talk about things related to him. One is an interest he had. If you know that the person you love the other person becomes a political problem, ask him to talk about the ongoing political situation. Show him that you are also interested in political issues by providing a variety of responses. Encourage him to talk further about the matter, giving rise to the spirit within them.


The existence of the spirit to speak to us, and our desire to talk about things which interest is what will make him like us. He felt comfortable and nice to hang out with us.